Question

【題目】請認真閱讀下面短文，并根據(jù)短文內(nèi)容回答問題。

Once again, I argued with my son, which I never really wanted to do. When I told my friend about my problems with Paul, he showed me a short article that he had read. It was titled “Disagreeing, with Good Results”.

The article said that understanding another person is never easy, but it is most difficult when we do not agree with the other person. If we want to have good relationships with other people, we must learn to disagree fairly, so that we can solve our problems.

The article went on to say the first rule for a good disagreement is: we must want to solve the problem. Sometimes when people argue, they do not really want to end the disagreement. Therefore, they usually shout at each other, and one person walks away just to end the disagreement. Nothing is changed. The problem is still there.

The second rule is: we should make the problem clear in the simplest way possible. What exactly are we arguing about?

The third rule is: we need to listen actively. In active listening, we listen to understand what the other person says rather than thinking only about what we want to say next. Before we react to the other person’s ideas, we should be sure that we understand them. While we are listening, we should look for similarities in our ideas, not difference. We should look for a way to compromise — to find a solution that both of us can be happy with.

【1】What’s the name of the writer’s son?

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【2】How can we solve the problems with the other people according to the article?

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【3】What will happen if one person walks away to end the disagreement?

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【4】Which solution should we find while listening actively?

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【5】How can we get along well with others in your opinion? （請自擬一句話作答）

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Answer 1

【答案】

【1】His name is Paul./Paul.

【2】We must learn to disagree fairly. / By learning to disagree fairly.

【3】Nothing is changed./ The problem is still there.

【4】The solution that both of us can be happy with.

【5】We should try to understand others./答案不唯一，言之成理即可。

【解析】試題本文就如何理解他人、解決分歧給出了三點好的建議，指出想和別人建立良好的關(guān)系，必須學(xué)會公平地反對，這樣才能解決我們的問題。

【1】題意：作者的兒子叫什么名字？考查細節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)第二句話When I told my friend about my problems with Paul, he showed me a short article that he had read.，可知他的兒子叫保羅，故填His name is Paul./Paul.。

【2】題意：根據(jù)文章，我們怎樣才能解決別人的問題？考查細節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)第二段If we want to have good relationships with other people, we must learn to disagree fairly, so that we can solve our problems.，可知學(xué)會公平地反對才能解決我們的問題，故填We must learn to disagree fairly. / By learning to disagree fairly.。

【3】題意：如果一個人走開以結(jié)束分歧，會發(fā)生什么？考查細節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)and one person walks away just to end the disagreement. Nothing is changed. The problem is still there.，可知什么也沒有改變，問題仍然存在，故填Nothing is changed./ The problem is still there.。

【4】題意：在積極傾聽的同時，我們應(yīng)該找到什么樣的解決方案？考查細節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)We should look for a way to compromise — to find a solution that both of us can be happy with.，可知需找到雙方都能滿意的解決方案，故填The solution that both of us can be happy with.。

【5】題意：在你看來，我們怎么能和別人相處得好呢？考查綜合理解題。開放性題目，言之成理即可。根據(jù)短文內(nèi)容，結(jié)合Before we react to the other person’s ideas, we should be sure that we understand them.，可知填We should try to understand others.。