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【題目】閱讀下面的短文，根據(jù)短文內(nèi)容完成表格中所缺信息，每空一詞。

Communication is important for strong family relationships．However, if you don't truly listen to others, it can be difficult to communicate．Working on your listening skills can help you communicate better and form stronger bonds．

Stay in the present．

When listening to a family member, do not think about other things．Put your phone away and give the speaker your full attention．It's important to try to stay in the present to make your family member feel heard and valued.

Pay attention to what is being said．Make sure that you can understand the speaker at the moment.

Use body language．

If you want the family member to feel valued, make sure to show that you are listening．You can do it by using body language．Nod as the speaker talks．Smile when appropriate．Maintain eye contact.

Do not cut in．

Cutting in can prevent you from communicating effectively．No matter how excited you feel about a subject, do not start talking until the family member has finished．Always allow a few seconds of silence after the speaker finishes talking before offering your reply．This allows you to make sure the speaker has finished, and gives the speaker a chance to fully express himself.

Ask questions．

Part of listening is understanding．If there is anything in the conversation you don’t understand, please ask after the family member finishes．This shows you are truly listening to him and value his thoughts.

Ask questions that encourage open discussions．For example, “What do you think of the situation?”

Avoid asking “why”questions, which might make the speaker feel uncomfortable．

Follow these tips, listen actively to your family to help communication run smoothly and build strong family relationships.

Title: 【1】to Be a Good Listener to Your Family
Introduction	Working on your listening skills 【2】you have better communication and form stronger family relationships.
【3】	Stay in the present	Never 【4】about other things while listening. Make sure to 【5】the speaker at the moment.
	Use body language	【6】as the speaker talks, smiling when appropriate and maintaining eye contact can show that you are listening.
	Do not cut in	【7】 until the family member has finished talking. A moment of silence is needed to allow the speaker to fully 【8】himself．
	Ask questions	Ask questions if 【9】 ．Any question shows that you value the speaker’s thoughts.
Conclusion	Listen 【10】to your family and build strong family relationships.

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】How

【2】helps

【3】Tips

【4】think

【5】understand

【6】Nodding

【7】Wait / Listen

【8】express

【9】necessary

【10】actively

【解析】

文章介紹了在與家庭成員的相處中，要善于傾聽(tīng)，才能形成良好的家庭關(guān)系。一要認(rèn)真傾聽(tīng)，不要在家庭成員對(duì)你說(shuō)話時(shí)做別的事情；二要善于使用體態(tài)語(yǔ)，點(diǎn)頭、微笑等；三是當(dāng)家庭成員說(shuō)話時(shí)，不要輕易打斷；四是要有禮貌的提出問(wèn)題，以說(shuō)明你是認(rèn)真的聽(tīng)的。

【1】主旨大意題。根據(jù)本文的主旨大意可知，本文講了四點(diǎn)都是講述應(yīng)該如何傾聽(tīng)，本題故填how。

【2】細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)文中“Working on your listening skills can help you communicate better and form stronger bonds．” 提高你的傾聽(tīng)技巧可以幫助你更好地溝通，建立更牢固的聯(lián)系可知，本題故填help。

【3】主旨大意題。表格所舉的四點(diǎn)，都講的是listening skills，本題故填tips。

【4】細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)文中“When listening to a family member, do not think about other things”可知，聽(tīng)家人說(shuō)話時(shí)，不要想其他的事情，本題故填think。

【5】細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)文中“Make sure that you can understand the speaker at the moment.” 確保你此刻能聽(tīng)懂說(shuō)話人的話，本題故填understand。

【6】細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)語(yǔ)境“Nod as the speaker talks”當(dāng)別人說(shuō)話時(shí)點(diǎn)頭，此題是動(dòng)詞ing形式做can show的主語(yǔ)，本題故填Nodding。

【7】細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)文中“No matter how excited you feel about a subject, do not start talking until the family member has finished．”可知不管你對(duì)一個(gè)話題有多興奮，在家人講完之前不要開(kāi)始說(shuō)話，本題故填Wait / Listen。

【8】細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)文中“Always allow a few seconds of silence after the speaker finishes talking before offering your reply，This gives the speaker a chance to fully express himself.”說(shuō)明給對(duì)方幾秒的沉默，讓說(shuō)話者可以很好地表達(dá)自己，本題故填express。

【9】推理判斷題。根據(jù)文中Ask questions的主旨大意，可知大意是在鼓勵(lì)問(wèn)問(wèn)題，任何問(wèn)題都表明你重視演講者的想法。本題故填necessary。

【10】細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)“listen actively to your family to help communication run smoothly and build strong family relationships.”積極傾聽(tīng)家人的意見(jiàn)，幫助溝通順暢，建立牢固的家庭關(guān)系可知，故填actively。

本題部分小題都是考查學(xué)生細(xì)節(jié)理解的能力，都是能從原文中找出正確答案的，但是考查學(xué)生總結(jié)能力的題型和推理能力的題型也會(huì)有一小部分，這考查平時(shí)學(xué)生對(duì)這類題型的熟練程度，并且還會(huì)考查到詞匯量，總結(jié)出來(lái)之后的單詞，學(xué)生也要能正確寫出來(lái)才行，而且還要注意單復(fù)數(shù)，時(shí)態(tài)以及語(yǔ)態(tài)方面。